Understanding Gender in English: Grammar Rules, Usage & Examples

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Have you ever wondered why we say โ€œheโ€ for a man and โ€œsheโ€ for a womanโ€”but also why ships are called “she,” and babies are sometimes called “it”? If English is your second language, you might have noticed that gender in English works differently compared to other languages like Spanish, French, or German. In fact, many learners are surprised to find that English has no grammatical gender for most nouns. But that doesnโ€™t mean gender doesnโ€™t matter at all!

In this easy-to-understand guide, weโ€™ll explore everything about gender in English grammar, including:

  • What gender means in English
  • How we use masculine, feminine, and neutral nouns and pronouns
  • Common gender-based mistakes and how to fix them
  • Real-life examples and fun exercises to test your skills

Whether you’re a beginner trying to grasp the basics or an advanced learner polishing your English, this guide will give you clear explanations and useful tips to speak and write English more confidently.

Letโ€™s get started by understanding what gender in English really means and how it differs from other languages.


When we talk about gender in English, weโ€™re not talking about biological gender or identityโ€”weโ€™re talking about how the English language refers to people, animals, objects, or ideas using masculine, feminine, or neutral terms. Unlike many other languages that assign gender to all nouns, English uses a natural gender system.

That means in English, gender is usually based on the actual biological sex of a living thing, not the word itself.


๐Ÿ”น Three Types of Gender in English Grammar

English grammar recognizes three main types of gender:

1. Masculine Gender

Used for male people and animals.

  • Examples:
    • man, boy, father, brother
    • uncle, son, king, actor
    • bull, rooster, stallion

2. Feminine Gender

Used for female people and animals.

  • Examples:
    • woman, girl, mother, sister
    • aunt, daughter, queen, actress
    • cow, hen, mare

3. Neuter Gender

Used for non-living things and things that donโ€™t have a biological gender.

  • Examples:
    • table, book, computer, tree
    • school, car, water, music

These words are not male or female, so they are considered gender-neutral or neuter.


๐Ÿ”น Special Case: Common Gender

There is also a category known as common gender, where a word can refer to either male or female, and context or additional words tell us more.

  • Examples:
    • parent (can be mother or father)
    • teacher, doctor, student, child, friend

These words can describe people of any gender, so they are commonly used in modern, inclusive English.


๐Ÿ”น What About Pronouns?

In English, gender often shows up in pronouns more than nouns. Hereโ€™s how:

GenderSubject PronounObject PronounPossessive AdjectivePossessive Pronoun
Masculinehehimhishis
Femininesheherherhers
Neuteritititsits
Plural/Neutral/Commontheythemtheirtheirs

Today, โ€œthey/themโ€ is also used as a singular gender-neutral pronoun, especially when gender is unknown or when referring to non-binary individuals.


๐Ÿ”น Gendered Nouns and Their Neutral Forms

Many traditional English words had masculine and feminine forms (like actor/actress), but modern English is moving toward gender-neutral language to promote equality and inclusion.

Here are a few examples:

MasculineFeminineGender-Neutral
actoractressactor (used for both now)
stewardstewardessflight attendant
policemanpolicewomanpolice officer
chairmanchairwomanchairperson / chair
businessmanbusinesswomanbusinessperson

๐Ÿ”น Summary: How Gender Works in English

  • English uses natural gender, not grammatical gender.
  • Gender in English is mostly found in pronouns and people-related words.
  • Objects and abstract ideas are considered neuter.
  • Modern English prefers gender-neutral terms for most professions and roles.
  • Context often helps clarify gender when itโ€™s not directly shown in the word.

Now that you understand what gender in English grammar means, letโ€™s look at how we use these words in everyday English sentences.


In our daily conversations, we use gendered nouns and pronouns all the timeโ€”often without even realizing it. Understanding how gender in English grammar appears in real-life speech and writing can help you use the correct words and avoid mistakes. Below are 10 common, everyday examples that show how gender works in natural English sentences.

These examples include masculine, feminine, and neuter usage, as well as gender-neutral terms. Youโ€™ll also see how pronouns reflect the gender of the person or thing being discussed.


๐Ÿ”Ÿ Common Gendered Sentences in Daily English

  1. He is my older brother. (Masculine pronoun referring to a male person)
  2. She loves reading historical novels. (Feminine pronoun used for a female subject)
  3. The baby is crying because it is hungry. (Neuter pronoun used for a very young child or animal)
  4. My father is a doctor, and my mother is a teacher. (Masculine and feminine nouns used together)
  5. The actor received an award for his performance. (Gender-neutral job title; masculine pronoun reflects the person’s gender)
  6. Ask the nurse if she can help. (Gender-neutral job title; feminine pronoun based on context)
  7. I met a police officer today, and they were very kind. (Gender-neutral noun and singular โ€œtheyโ€ used when gender is unknown)
  8. The chairperson said they would call us later. (Inclusive and gender-neutral; “they” used to avoid assuming gender)
  9. Our dog loves to run. He gets excited every morning. (Animal referred to with a masculine pronoun)
  10. I gave the book to John because it belongs to him.

๐Ÿ’ฌ Key Observations from These Sentences

  • Gender in English mostly shows up in pronouns and people-related nouns.
  • Animals are usually referred to as โ€œitโ€, unless the gender is known or the animal is a pet.
  • Jobs and roles are now often written in gender-neutral form (like โ€œnurse,โ€ โ€œpolice officer,โ€ โ€œchairpersonโ€).
  • โ€œTheyโ€ can be used when:
    • The gender is unknown
    • The person prefers gender-neutral language
    • You’re referring to someone in a general or indefinite way

Knowing when to use gender in English grammar helps you speak and write more naturally and respectfully. Although English does not assign gender to all nouns, it still plays an important role in certain contextsโ€”especially when referring to people, animals, and pronouns.

Letโ€™s explore all the key situations where gender matters in English. These examples will guide you in choosing the right gendered words and pronouns based on the speaker, context, or social norms.


๐Ÿ”น 1. When Talking About People

Use gendered words or pronouns when referring to a specific person whose gender is known.

  • My sister said she will come tomorrow.
  • That man is very friendly. He helped me find my bag.
  • Her father is a well-known artist.

๐Ÿ”น 2. When Gender Is Unknown or Irrelevant

Use gender-neutral nouns and pronouns when:

  • You donโ€™t know the personโ€™s gender
  • Gender isnโ€™t important
  • You want to avoid bias or be inclusive

Examples:

  • Ask the doctor if they are available.
  • A student must complete their homework.
  • Every parent wants their child to succeed.

๐Ÿ”น 3. When Referring to Animals

  • If the animalโ€™s gender is known or the pet is personal, use โ€œheโ€ or โ€œsheโ€:
    • My cat is adorable. She loves to nap on the sofa.
  • If the gender is unknown or unimportant, use โ€œitโ€:
    • Thereโ€™s a bird outside. It keeps singing all morning.

๐Ÿ”น 4. When Talking About Professions or Roles

English now uses gender-neutral job titles to promote fairness and equality.

Examples:

  • Use โ€œfirefighterโ€ instead of โ€œfiremanโ€
  • Use โ€œpolice officerโ€ instead of โ€œpolicemanโ€ or โ€œpolicewomanโ€
  • Use โ€œchairpersonโ€ or simply โ€œchairโ€ instead of โ€œchairmanโ€

If the personโ€™s gender is relevant, pronouns can show that:

  • The nurse said she would return soon.
  • The engineer finished his report last night.

๐Ÿ”น 5. When Describing Babies or Young Children

English sometimes uses โ€œitโ€ for babies or children when gender is not specified:

  • The baby is sleeping. It looks so peaceful.

But if the gender is known:

  • My niece just had a baby boy. He is so tiny!

๐Ÿ”น 6. In Literature, Myth, and Symbolism

Certain objects or ideas may be given gendered pronouns for stylistic reasons:

  • The ship set sail. She was ready for her journey.
  • Mother Earth is kind and nurturing.
  • The sun showed his strength while the moon offered her calm.

Note: These uses are poetic or symbolic and not common in everyday speech.


๐Ÿ”น 7. To Respect Personal Identity

Itโ€™s polite and important to use the pronouns someone prefers, such as โ€œhe,โ€ โ€œshe,โ€ or โ€œthey.โ€

  • This is Sam. They are my friend and go by they/them pronouns.
  • Please ask Jordan. He will help you.

Always use language that respects peopleโ€™s identity and choices.


๐Ÿ”น Summary: When to Use Gender in English

โœ… Use gendered pronouns and nouns when gender is known
โœ… Use โ€œthey/themโ€ when gender is unknown or to stay neutral
โœ… Use gender-neutral titles and roles
โœ… For animals, use โ€œitโ€ unless the petโ€™s gender is known
โœ… For babies, use โ€œitโ€ when gender is unknown; use โ€œheโ€ or โ€œsheโ€ if known
โœ… Respect peopleโ€™s chosen pronouns


Unlike some other languages, English does not change verb conjugation based on gender. This makes English grammar easier in many ways. However, gender still affects certain related parts of a sentence, like pronouns and possessive adjectives. These must match the gender of the person or subject youโ€™re talking about.

Letโ€™s break down the conjugation rules where gender has some influenceโ€”mainly in how we choose pronouns, possessive forms, and reflexive pronouns.


๐Ÿ”น 1. Subject Pronouns Based on Gender

Subject pronouns change depending on whether the noun is masculine, feminine, or neutral.

GenderPronoun
Malehe
Femaleshe
Neutral or Unknownit / they

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • He goes to school.
  • She likes to draw.
  • It is raining.
  • They are studying hard. (used for unknown or non-binary)

๐Ÿ”น 2. Object Pronouns

These are used when the pronoun is the object of the verb.

GenderPronoun
Malehim
Femaleher
Neutral / Plural / Unknownit / them

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • I saw him at the store.
  • I helped her with homework.
  • Please move it.
  • Tell them to call back.

๐Ÿ”น 3. Possessive Adjectives

These show who owns something. They must match the gender and number of the subject.

GenderPossessive Adjective
Malehis
Femaleher
Neutralits
Gender-neutraltheir

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • This is his bag.
  • Thatโ€™s her phone.
  • The dog wagged its tail.
  • Every student must bring their notebook.

๐Ÿ”น 4. Possessive Pronouns

These replace nouns to show ownership.

GenderPossessive Pronoun
Malehis
Femalehers
Neutralits (rarely used)
Gender-neutraltheirs

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • This book is his.
  • That pencil is hers.
  • The company changed its policy.
  • That idea wasnโ€™t mineโ€”it was theirs.

๐Ÿ”น 5. Reflexive Pronouns

These are used when the subject and object are the same.

GenderReflexive Pronoun
Malehimself
Femaleherself
Neutralitself
Gender-neutralthemselves (or themself)

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • He hurt himself.
  • She taught herself to paint.
  • The cat cleaned itself.
  • Someone should speak up for themselves.

โš ๏ธ Important Notes:

  • Verbs do NOT change based on gender in English.
    โœ”๏ธ He runs, she runs, it runs โ€” all use the same form.
  • The only changes happen with pronouns and possessives, not with the main verb.
  • Be especially careful with their, they, and themโ€”these are used in both plural and gender-neutral singular forms.

Even though English doesnโ€™t have gendered nouns like many other languages, there are still important grammar rules you need to understand. These rules help you speak clearly, write correctly, and show respect in conversations.

Letโ€™s explore the key grammar rules that guide how we use gender in English sentences. Each rule is simple, useful, and includes clear examples.


๐Ÿ”น Rule 1: Use Gendered Pronouns Only When Necessary

Only use โ€œhe,โ€ โ€œshe,โ€ or โ€œitโ€ when the gender is known and relevant. When gender is unknown or youโ€™re speaking generally, use โ€œthey.โ€

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • He is my uncle. (Known male)
  • She is a doctor. (Known female)
  • Someone called, but they didnโ€™t leave a message. (Unknown gender)

๐Ÿ”น Rule 2: Use Gender-Neutral Words for Jobs and Roles

Many job titles used to be gender-specific, but today, we use gender-neutral alternatives to be inclusive.

๐Ÿ“Œ Replace:

  • Fireman โ†’ Firefighter
  • Stewardess โ†’ Flight Attendant
  • Chairman โ†’ Chairperson

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • Sheโ€™s a police officer, not a policeman.
  • My cousin is a salesperson at a tech store.

๐Ÿ”น Rule 3: Match Pronouns with the Subjectโ€™s Gender and Number

When the subject is clear, use the correct gendered or neutral pronoun to match.

SubjectCorrect Pronoun
My brotherhe / his / him
My sistershe / her / hers
My dog (female)she / her
A baby (unknown)it / its
The teamit / its / they
Each studentthey / their / them

๐Ÿ“Œ Example Sentences:

  • My boss said she would call back.
  • The baby spilled its milk.
  • Every customer must sign their receipt.

๐Ÿ”น Rule 4: Avoid Assuming Gender in Writing or Speech

If youโ€™re writing instructions or talking about a person you donโ€™t know, use they/them instead of guessing the gender.

โŒ A good employee does his job well.
โœ… A good employee does their job well.


๐Ÿ”น Rule 5: Reflexive Pronouns Must Agree with Gender

Use reflexive pronouns that match the subjectโ€™s gender:

  • he โ†’ himself
  • she โ†’ herself
  • it โ†’ itself
  • they โ†’ themselves

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • He fixed the car himself.
  • She taught herself to cook.
  • The cat cleaned itself.
  • Someone should defend themselves.

๐Ÿ”น Rule 6: Be Respectful of Personal Pronouns

Always ask or follow a personโ€™s preferred pronouns. This rule shows kindness and respect, especially for non-binary or gender-diverse individuals.

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • This is Taylor. They are our guest speaker.
  • Ask Alex if they need help.

๐Ÿ”น Rule 7: Gender Doesnโ€™t Change Verb Forms

In English, verbs donโ€™t change based on gender.

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • He plays football.
  • She plays football.
  • It plays in the yard.
  • They play football.

โœ”๏ธ As you can see, the verb form depends on the subjectโ€™s number (singular or plural), not the gender.


Summary of Grammar Rules:

โœ… Use gendered pronouns when gender is clear
โœ… Choose gender-neutral job titles and nouns
โœ… Match pronouns with gender and number
โœ… Use โ€œtheyโ€ as a gender-neutral option
โœ… Use correct reflexive forms
โœ… Respect individual pronoun preferences
โœ… Keep verb forms gender-free


Using gender in English may seem easy at first, but itโ€™s also easy to make small mistakes if you’re not careful. These simple tips will help you avoid confusion and make your English sound more natural, polite, and inclusiveโ€”especially when you’re speaking with people from different backgrounds or cultures.

Letโ€™s explore some must-know tips for using gender correctly in English, with lots of helpful examples and reminders.


โœ… Tip 1: When in Doubt, Use โ€œTheyโ€

If youโ€™re unsure of someoneโ€™s gender, or if itโ€™s not important, use โ€œtheyโ€ instead of โ€œheโ€ or โ€œshe.โ€ This is common in everyday English and shows respect.

๐Ÿ“Œ Example:

  • A student left their book on the desk.
  • Someone knocked, but they didnโ€™t say anything.

๐ŸŸข Why it works: โ€œTheyโ€ avoids assuming gender and keeps your sentence grammatically correct.


โœ… Tip 2: Replace Old Gendered Words with Neutral Ones

English is always changing, and today we prefer more inclusive language. Replace outdated terms with modern, gender-neutral words.

๐Ÿ“Œ Replace:

  • Policeman โ†’ Police officer
  • Businessman โ†’ Businessperson
  • Mailman โ†’ Mail carrier
  • Waitress โ†’ Server

๐ŸŸข Example:
โŒ The fireman saved the child.
โœ… The firefighter saved the child.


โœ… Tip 3: Learn the Gender Rules for Pronouns

Mastering pronouns helps you speak clearly. Remember these matching rules:

SubjectPossessive AdjectiveObjectReflexive
Hehishimhimself
Sheherherherself
Ititsititself
Theytheirthemthemselves

๐ŸŸข Quick reminder: โ€œItsโ€ is possessive, not a contraction. โ€œItโ€™sโ€ = it is.


โœ… Tip 4: Be Careful with Animals and Babies

For animals or babies, we usually use โ€œitโ€, unless we know the gender or are speaking lovingly.

๐Ÿ“Œ Examples:

  • The cat is playing with its toy.
  • This is my puppy. She loves to run.

๐ŸŸข Rule: Use โ€œheโ€ or โ€œsheโ€ for pets if you know the gender.


โœ… Tip 5: Respect Preferred Pronouns in Conversation

Always use the pronouns people choose for themselves. If youโ€™re not sure, itโ€™s okay to ask politely:
๐Ÿ“Œ โ€œWhat pronouns do you prefer?โ€

๐ŸŸข Common modern options:

  • He/him
  • She/her
  • They/them
  • Other gender-neutral pronouns like ze/zir (used in some communities)

โœ… Tip 6: Use Plural Forms to Avoid Gender Bias

If you want to make a sentence neutral and still grammatically correct, change the noun to a plural form and use โ€œthey/theirโ€.

๐Ÿ“Œ Example:
โŒ Each employee must show his badge.
โœ… All employees must show their badges.

๐ŸŸข Why? This makes the sentence gender-neutral and more natural.


โœ… Tip 7: Avoid Stereotypes in Language

Donโ€™t make gender-based assumptions or use language that reinforces stereotypes.

๐Ÿ“Œ Avoid:

  • โ€œWomen are emotional.โ€
  • โ€œMen donโ€™t cry.โ€

๐ŸŸข Use:

  • โ€œPeople show emotions in different ways.โ€
  • โ€œEveryone feels things differently.โ€

โœ… Tip 8: Stay Updated with Modern Usage

Language changes over time. Keep learning and noticing how gender is used in news, movies, books, and online communities.

๐ŸŸข For example:

  • Many forms now offer options like โ€œOtherโ€ or โ€œPrefer not to sayโ€ for gender.
  • Public announcements often say, โ€œLadies, gentlemen, and everyone in between.โ€

โœ… Tip 9: Practice Makes Perfect

Make it a habit to use gender-appropriate or neutral forms in your writing and speaking. Read more, write often, and talk with native speakers or teachers to get feedback.


Even fluent speakers sometimes make gender-related mistakes in English, especially when translating from gendered languages or using outdated terms. These errors can lead to confusion or even offend someone without meaning to. In this section, youโ€™ll learn about the most common gender mistakes and how to fix them easily with practical examples.


โŒ Mistake 1: Using โ€œHeโ€ as the Default Pronoun

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
Using โ€œheโ€ to represent people in general is outdated and not inclusive.

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
Every student must bring his notebook.

โœ… Fix:
Use โ€œtheyโ€ or make the noun plural.

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:

  • Every student must bring their notebook.
  • All students must bring their notebooks.

โŒ Mistake 2: Using Gendered Job Titles

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
Saying โ€œactressโ€ or โ€œstewardessโ€ when gender doesnโ€™t matter is old-fashioned.

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
She wants to be an actress.

โœ… Fix:
Use gender-neutral terms.

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:
She wants to be an actor.
Heโ€™s working as a flight attendant.


โŒ Mistake 3: Confusing โ€œItsโ€ and โ€œItโ€™sโ€

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
โ€œItsโ€ shows possession. โ€œItโ€™sโ€ means โ€œit is.โ€ Mixing them up is a common grammar mistake.

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
The dog lost itโ€™s bone.

โœ… Fix:
Use โ€œitsโ€ for possession.

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:
The dog lost its bone.


โŒ Mistake 4: Misusing โ€œThemselfโ€ Instead of โ€œThemselvesโ€

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
โ€œThemselfโ€ is rarely used in modern English. The correct plural reflexive pronoun is โ€œthemselves.โ€

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
Each person must take care of themself.

โœ… Fix:
Use themselves for natural and proper English.

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:
Each person must take care of themselves.


โŒ Mistake 5: Guessing Someoneโ€™s Gender in Writing or Speech

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
Assuming someoneโ€™s gender without knowing can lead to mistakes or offense.

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
Tell the manager that he needs to call back.

โœ… Fix:
Use โ€œtheyโ€ if the gender is unknown.

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:
Tell the manager that they need to call back.


โŒ Mistake 6: Forgetting to Update Reflexive Pronouns

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
Saying โ€œherselfโ€ or โ€œhimselfโ€ when the subject is plural or unknown.

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
The employee should help himself.

โœ… Fix:
Use themselves when gender is not known or when talking about a group.

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:
The employee should help themselves.


โŒ Mistake 7: Using โ€œManโ€ or โ€œMankindโ€ to Refer to Everyone

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
These terms sound male-focused and are no longer considered neutral.

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
Man has walked on the moon.

โœ… Fix:
Use inclusive words like โ€œhumansโ€ or โ€œpeople.โ€

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:
Humans have walked on the moon.
People have walked on the moon.


โŒ Mistake 8: Saying โ€œItโ€ for People

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
Never call a person โ€œitโ€ unless you are being disrespectful. โ€œItโ€ is for things, animals, or babies when gender is unknown.

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
I met a new student. It was very smart.

โœ… Fix:
Use โ€œhe,โ€ โ€œshe,โ€ or โ€œthey.โ€

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:
I met a new student. They were very smart.


โŒ Mistake 9: Not Matching Gender and Number in Pronouns

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
Mixing singular nouns with plural pronouns or vice versa can confuse the listener or reader.

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
My brother are fixing their car.

โœ… Fix:
Make sure subjects and pronouns agree.

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:
My brother is fixing his car.


โŒ Mistake 10: Forgetting That English Doesnโ€™t Gender Objects

๐Ÿ”ด Whatโ€™s wrong:
In some languages, objects have gender. In English, they donโ€™t.

๐Ÿ“Œ Incorrect:
I like my car. She is fast.

โœ… Fix:
Use โ€œitโ€ for all objects.

๐Ÿ“Œ Correct:
I like my car. It is fast.

Avoiding these mistakes will instantly improve your English grammar and make you sound more confident and respectful in conversations.


To help you better understand how gender works in English, here are 20 carefully selected example sentences. These sentences show correct use of gender-specific and gender-neutral words, pronouns, and professional terms. You’ll find a mix of everyday situations, including both formal and casual English. These examples are especially helpful for learners from languages that assign gender to nouns.


๐Ÿ‘จโ€๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ‘งโ€๐Ÿ‘ฆ Gender-Specific Examples

  1. He is my older brother, and she is my younger sister.
  2. The waiter served our food while the waitress took the drink orders.
  3. She gave her friend a birthday card.
  4. My uncle is a doctor, and my aunt is a nurse.
  5. The actor thanked his fans after the performance.

๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿคโ€๐Ÿง‘ Gender-Neutral Examples

  1. A good teacher always supports their students.
  2. Someone left their umbrella in the hallway.
  3. The police officer asked if everything was okay.
  4. The child hugged their mom tightly before leaving.
  5. The firefighter rescued a kitten from the tree.

๐Ÿ‘ถ Common Everyday Examples

  1. The baby slept in its crib all night.
  2. My cousin just moved to New York. They love it there.
  3. Every student must bring their homework tomorrow.
  4. If a person works hard, they will succeed.
  5. Each employee is responsible for their own desk.

๐Ÿข Professional and Polite Usage

  1. The chairperson opened the meeting with a warm welcome.
  2. I spoke with the manager, and they agreed to reschedule the interview.
  3. Please call your doctor if they havenโ€™t sent the report yet.
  4. The flight attendant helped the passengers with their luggage.
  5. The guest said they had a wonderful stay at the hotel.

These sentences show you how to use gender-specific words when needed and gender-neutral terms when appropriate. They reflect real-life situations and will help make your English sound polite, respectful, and inclusive.


Try filling in the blanks with the correct gender pronouns, nouns, or neutral terms based on what youโ€™ve learned so far. Choose the best word or phrase to complete each sentence naturally and correctly.


  1. The teacher asked if ______ had any questions.
  2. My uncle said ______ will visit us next week.
  3. Every student should bring ______ own lunch.
  4. The firefighter saved the cat and took ______ to the vet.
  5. The baby lost ______ pacifier during the night.
  6. The manager said ______ will send the email soon.
  7. Someone left ______ backpack in the classroom.
  8. The waiter told us that ______ favorite dish is the steak.
  9. Each employee is responsible for keeping ______ workspace clean.
  10. The actor thanked all of ______ fans after the show.
  11. If a person studies hard, ______ will pass the exam.
  12. The police officer said ______ would patrol the area tonight.
  13. My cousin just called; ______ said hello.
  14. The nurse gave the patient ______ medicine on time.
  15. The guest left ______ keys at the front desk.
  16. The flight attendant asked if ______ needed any help.
  17. The child smiled when ______ saw the puppy.
  18. The aunt promised to visit ______ niece soon.
  19. The businessman forgot ______ briefcase in the taxi.
  20. The student forgot to bring ______ textbook to class.

  1. The teacher asked if they had any questions.
  2. My uncle said he will visit us next week.
  3. Every student should bring their own lunch.
  4. The firefighter saved the cat and took it to the vet.
  5. The baby lost its pacifier during the night.
  6. The manager said they will send the email soon.
  7. Someone left their backpack in the classroom.
  8. The waiter told us that his favorite dish is the steak.
  9. Each employee is responsible for keeping their workspace clean.
  10. The actor thanked all of his fans after the show.
  11. If a person studies hard, they will pass the exam.
  12. The police officer said they would patrol the area tonight.
  13. My cousin just called; they said hello.
  14. The nurse gave the patient their medicine on time.
  15. The guest left their keys at the front desk.
  16. The flight attendant asked if we needed any help.
  17. The child smiled when they saw the puppy.
  18. The aunt promised to visit her niece soon.
  19. The businessman forgot his briefcase in the taxi.
  20. The student forgot to bring their textbook to class.

Here are some of the most common questions learners ask about gender in English, along with clear and simple answers to help you understand better.


1. What is gender in English grammar?

Gender in English refers to whether a noun or pronoun is masculine (male), feminine (female), or neuter (neutral). English mostly uses natural gender, meaning gender depends on the actual sex of a person or animal, or it uses gender-neutral terms for objects and people when the gender is unknown.


2. Does English assign gender to all nouns like some other languages?

No. Unlike languages such as Spanish, French, or German, English does not assign gender to most nouns. Only some words referring to people and animals have gender (e.g., man/woman, actor/actress). Most things and ideas are gender-neutral.


3. Can I use โ€œtheyโ€ as a singular pronoun?

Yes! Using โ€œtheyโ€ as a singular pronoun is widely accepted in modern English when the gender of the person is unknown, when referring to someone who prefers โ€œthey/themโ€ pronouns, or to avoid gender bias.


4. What are gender-neutral job titles?

Gender-neutral job titles are words that do not specify a personโ€™s gender. For example, use โ€œfirefighterโ€ instead of โ€œfireman,โ€ โ€œactorโ€ instead of โ€œactress,โ€ and โ€œflight attendantโ€ instead of โ€œstewardess.โ€ These terms are more inclusive and professional.


5. Is it wrong to use โ€œheโ€ as a general pronoun?

It is no longer considered appropriate to use โ€œheโ€ as a default generic pronoun because it excludes females and non-binary people. Instead, use โ€œtheyโ€ or rephrase the sentence to be plural.


6. How do I know which pronoun to use for animals?

Use โ€œitโ€ for animals if you donโ€™t know their gender. If you know the gender, you can use โ€œheโ€ or โ€œshe.โ€ Pets are often given gendered pronouns if the speaker knows them personally.


7. Are words like โ€œmanโ€ and โ€œmankindโ€ still acceptable?

These terms are becoming outdated because they focus on males. Itโ€™s better to use inclusive terms like โ€œhumankind,โ€ โ€œpeople,โ€ or โ€œhumanity.โ€


8. What is the difference between โ€œitsโ€ and โ€œitโ€™sโ€?

โ€œItsโ€ is a possessive pronoun, showing ownership (e.g., The dog wagged its tail). โ€œItโ€™sโ€ is a contraction for โ€œit isโ€ or โ€œit hasโ€ (e.g., Itโ€™s raining outside).


9. Can gender-neutral language confuse listeners?

No. Using gender-neutral language is clear and inclusive. Many organizations encourage it to avoid bias and respect everyoneโ€™s identity.


10. How can I improve my understanding of gender in English?

Practice reading, writing, and speaking with gender-specific and gender-neutral terms. Listen to native speakers and pay attention to pronoun usage. Doing exercises like the ones in this blog helps too!


  • Gender in English mostly depends on natural gender โ€” the actual sex of people or animals.
  • English nouns are mostly gender-neutral; only some words have masculine or feminine forms.
  • Use he, she, and they carefully based on the personโ€™s gender or when the gender is unknown.
  • โ€œTheyโ€ is an accepted singular pronoun for gender neutrality and inclusivity.
  • Gender-neutral job titles like firefighter, chairperson, and police officer promote respect and equality.
  • Avoid using โ€œheโ€ as a default generic pronoun to prevent exclusion and bias.
  • Use โ€œitsโ€ for possession with objects and animals, and โ€œitโ€™sโ€ as a contraction for โ€œit isโ€ or โ€œit has.โ€
  • Pronouns for animals depend on whether their gender is known; otherwise, use โ€œit.โ€
  • Inclusive language supports clear, respectful, and modern communication.
  • Practice with examples, fill-in-the-blanks, and everyday conversation to master gender in English.

Mastering gender in English is essential for speaking and writing clearly, politely, and respectfully. Whether youโ€™re a beginner or an advanced learner, knowing when and how to use masculine, feminine, and gender-neutral terms will boost your confidence and help you communicate effectively in any situation.

Remember, English is flexible and inclusive. Using they as a singular pronoun or choosing gender-neutral job titles shows respect for everyoneโ€™s identity. Practice often, read widely, and listen carefully to how native speakers use gender in daily conversations.

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